Tuesday, March 18, 2014

Third year Day 62 - Thursday February 13, 2014

For those of you who regularly read this blog.......I've been offline for quite a bit here!  Sorry!  I guess I am just plain old tuckered out!  It seems as if I've been driving that road to Utah too often and running around for too many appointments, etc.  Anyway, I've had a few weeks of rest and now I will attempt to reconstruct some of those days for you.

It was great to be at home and just spend some time with Mark.  We had a lot to talk about, including the appointment that Bridgett had last week.  Overall, it was a hard and for both of us.  It was hard mentally and physically for Bridgett; it was hard emotionally for me.  I know that things are different now since Bridgett's accident (obviously), but I don't really like to see it in black and white, you know what I mean?  And I still feel strongly that there is a lot of time for healing ahead, whereas the psychologist was one of those doctors that very specifically told me that the two year time frame was about the best we could expect.  If you think in those terms, things are kind of depressing.  I don't accept that and won't accept that!  We have to have our faith and hope about things.  Just recently I heard and old cassette tape that we have (yes we still have a player for it!) and the guy was talking about believing and doing.  He said that when people studied the bee they found out that aerodynamically it shouldn't be able to fly.....but the bee doesn't know that and so it flies anyway.  That's how we have to be about many things in life.  We just have to decide and then do and not accept any of the naysayers! 

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